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Pamela Hay started her successful Coaching Psychology Consultancy in 2004. Since that time she has helped many clients from different walks of life and the consultancy has grown steadily through word of mouth.

She combines expertise gleaned from a degree in psychology with ongoing training and extensive personal and professional experience motivating and helping people reach their goals.

Pamela's natural enthusiasm for life, and warm, compassionate personality helps clients feel comfortable and at ease. She has always seen challenges as an opportunity to learn and change for the better. Pamela brings this philosophy to her consultancy, and firmly believes that no matter how daunting life can seem, there is always a way forward, and with help, anyone can live a happy and fulfilling life.

Pamela’s passion and purpose in life is to make a significant difference to individuals, relationships, families and society. By combining excellence and a professional approach to both client and service she ensures consistency in providing the highest up-to-date standards of service, ethics and professionalism.

Pamela's coaching focuses on facilitating healthy, functional relationships for individuals.

She believes the most important and fundamental relationship is with yourself, and it’s essential to get that right first. Achieving this has an extremely positive impact on your personal and professional life, your relationships and your family.

Pamela’s coaching philosophy embraces your holistic health and well-being, encompassing your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health. This approach addresses a range of areas in your life to get to the very root of any obstacles that may be holding you back.

Once identified, conscious choice is employed to achieve the change you desire. Pamela works to raise your awareness for a deep, significant and lasting shift.

Working together, you’ll build solid foundation blocks for healthy self-esteem and confidence.

This enables individuals to be the best they can be, with a holistic sense of good health, happiness, confidence and general well-being.

All the results you experience are integrated and sustainable, for lasting change, so you can go on to flourish and thrive at work, at home and in society.

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Pamela Hay

Qualifications

Industrial and Organisational Psychology Degree

B SocSci Science majoring in Human Resources and Psychology

Ongoing wellness training through various best-practice methodologies

Member of the New Zealand Association of Positive Psychology

Experience

20 years helping humans to live beautiful lives in love, life and work.

Delivers life changing results for many happy clients.

A wise mind and soul with strong personal experience, empathy and deep listening skills who radiates positive energy.

Style

A warm, compassionate and kind presence to help put anyone at ease.

Natural enthusiasm and positive outlook for life to solve even the greatest challenges.

Readily builds trust and rapport.

Holistic wellbeing approach across business, relationships, mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health so that you can maximise your professional and personal potential.

 

"Pamela is a warm, caring, inspirational person and a highly skilled coach. Her practical tools and guidelines enable a deeply reflective process and transformational results. Her searching questions have enabled me to see myself in a new light, and to let go of burdens I can choose not to carry. She has helped me to go deep to discover recurring thoughts and patterns which hold me back and to deal with them with straightforward mind-body techniques. I now have significantly less pain in my body. I feel rejuvenated and optimistic and I am rediscovering my own uniqueness.

Like anything worthwhile the coaching process takes personal effort. Pamela has gently matched my struggles and revelations with wholeheartedness, expertise and full acceptance of who I am. Throughout our coaching sessions I have felt cared for, fully seen, supported and motivated. I unreservedly recommend Pamela to anyone seeking a coach who will work with you to help change your life."

Robyn, Auckland

"14 years ago, I was stuck in professional patterns that I knew did not make me happy. I lived in Europe and had tried different therapists and self-learning books, but it didn’t lead to any change. So, I decided to change scenery completely and moved to the other side of the world for two years – to New Zeeland. But three months later I found myself stuck in exactly the same job and patterns as before. I came across Pamela and signed up for a coaching package. She managed to make me understand the origins of my thoughts and behaviors, which sprung from far back in time and was closely tied with my upbringing and family relations – and their history. My new insights gave me guidance in how to pick the raisins of my life for many years to come. Half a year ago I found myself stuck in destructive patterns again that made me very frustrated. I had gone through many tough life events that made me feel lonely and misunderstood, and along that way I had developed chronic migraines which I experienced as a huge showstopper for a happy and fulfilling life. I was back in Europe, but thanks to the internet and Zoom I was able to reconnect to my dear life coach Pam in NZ, who once again brought me back on my feet and managed to change my mindset and break old destructive patterns – and reduce my migraines! Pam is a living angel in my life, and I will be forever grateful that she was sent my way!"

Anna, Sweden