Getting relationship help from the perspective of the relationship with yourself is something you may not have considered.
“In order for you to go to where you want to you have to first know exactly where you are starting” – Dr Phil.
Often clients come to me for relationship help from a stance of blaming, criticising or trying to fix their partner when things are not working. When in reality what we get out of our relationships is ususally in direct proportion to what we are putting into our relationships. If you really want things to improve in a relationship it’s simply a practical thing to remember – to at least look at oneself first before looking to the other for reasons for the difficulty.
Recently, a client came to me for relationship help for difficulties she was experiencing with her partner. Consequently, she was struggling to make confident decisions about her future.
Initially, we spent some time discussing her situation and also explored her background and past relationships. This journey of self discovery gave her valuable insights and a deeper understanding of herself and her issues and allowed her to see how it was impacting the relationship with her partner.
The relationship help and coaching gave her clarity on what needed to change and how to do things differently. With increased self awareness and confidence she was able to implement the change in a way that she found encouraging and empowering.
As a result she has developed effective communication skills which has elevated her confidence and self-esteem. She has taken control of her life with clear intentions, goals and direction, and feels positive, grounded and happy.
Dr Phil’s book “Self Matters” - Creating your life from the inside out. This book helps you to connect with your authenticity and how to create the life you really want. Have a look at some practical ways on his website to get started. www.drphil.com
If you are seeking relationship help and are ready to take your relationship with self and others to a new level, then give me a call to book an initial 30 min session to discuss and design your coaching plan.



